Yesterday, Matt Singley (@mattsingley) asked a simple, but rather provocative question via Twitter:

What ensued was an interesting mini-conversation about how to successfully and effectively engage with a competitor’s customers through social media.
The set-up
Let’s say you work for Company Y in Matt’s scenario and have a social media/online monitoring program that watches not only for mentions of your company’s name but your competitors’ names, as well (and if you don’t already have such a program in place, I happen to know a very good agency that can help you). In the course of your monitoring, you discover that Company X has screwed up and now has some royally discontented customers. What do you do?
Your first instinct may be to jump on this golden opportunity quickly so you can grab some new customers…and I’m going to suggest you squelch this instinct. By being overzealous in your online efforts, you can actually do more harm to your company’s online reputation than good. Don’t be the jackal eagerly waiting to pick off the discontented carcasses of your competitors’ customers.
What should you do, instead?
First, listen, do a little legwork, understand. Find out what happened. In our online world, it’s not that hard to uncover what’s going on when a competitor screws up. Do not – REPEAT, DO NOT – wade into any tweetstream or blogpost until you figure out what’s going on. Failing to grasp an initial understanding of how the customer feels will only make you appear insincere and predatory.
Second, be a human being. Sorry if that seems overly simplistic and obvious, but its astounding how often we forget that long-term sales relationships starts with treating customers like humans with respect. After gaining an understanding of the situation, practice some empathy. Ask yourself, “If I was this individual, would I want someone to start aggressively hawking their wares under my nose right now? Or would I prefer someone to treat me better than I’ve just been treated by Company X?” A little empathy goes a long ways.
What might this look like? Here is a fresh scenario from Twitter:
A customer becomes irritated with a rival’s product or service. Here’s an example from @Dotpage who is calling out @logitech’s slow driver updates:

Let’s say you work for Altec Lansing and uncover a tweet like this. Now maybe no one – including your own company – has drivers ready for Snow Leopard, but here’s a prime opportunity for you to approach a competitor’s disgruntled customer. A course of action might be to research the social media chatter coming from Twitter (http://search.twitter.com/search?q=+to%3Alogitech) where you’ll find this issue is significant source of irritation among Logitech’s customers. Then, your first @ reply should be to note the problems faced by the individual – in this case, a lack of updated drivers. Perhaps send a tweet such as “Sorry to hear about the problems you’re having with speaker drivers…it sucks to not be able to hear sounds from your Mac.” Resist the urge to openly sell your product on first tweet. Remember, your aim is to build a long-term relationship not make a quick sale.
Not everyone you send @ replies are going to respond and that’s okay. For those individuals who do reply, here’s the opportunity to guide your competitor’s customer toward your own products and services. Ask what they want from a product, what drives them crazy, what a company can do to improve their experience. You now have a personal, one-to-one conversation with a buyer that can turn them into a raving fan. People become passionate about purchasing from other people, particularly those who genuinely want the best for them. This interaction can be a catalyst for introducing a customer to your own products and services without the need for even making an open sales call.
After you’ve made contact with the individual on Twitter, then follow them. Don’t make following the first course of action – this is the type of behavior that bots employ and again can be seen as an overly aggressive predatory tactic that will turn off the potential prospect.
Third, make sure every single person in your company is working from the same playbook. This is where breaking down silos and cross-functional planning cannot be under-emphasized. If just one person from your company leaps in like a jackal, then there’s a better-than-average chance your company’s image will be tarnished along with that of Company X.
Any thoughts or counterarguments here? What’s worked for you as a disgruntled customer? What’s worked or hasn’t worked for your company in having conversations like these?


Great post, Chris. We had a great conversation on Twitter yesterday, it's nice to be able to read your full thoughts more than 140 characters at a time. Good use of the social media funnel, by the way….start it on Twitter and move it to another platform that can be expanded upon.
I think your main points here are spot on. Engagement is tricky in social media, especially on Twitter where anything even semi-aggressive can be viewed as spammy behavior. I think a single @ reply is a good way to get things started, with the caveat that filling up a business account (or any account for that matter) with @s in the stream is also spammy. I've seen plenty of companies create a tweet like, “if you're having problems with your web hosting, check ours out”, then doing a copy/paste to everybody they can find on Twitter that is mentioning bad hosting. Spammy. And it violates what you mentioned above…don't pitch your service right away, develop the relationship first.
Glad to have engaged you in convo yesterday, thanks for this post.
Chris, this is a really great article and Matt it was an interesting topic that you had originally brought up. I really don't feel that there is much wrong in approaching the dissatisfied customers of your competitors as long as it is done with a degree of style and tact.
Thanks for the great read!
Thanks, Tia. I think style and tact are exactly the qualities you have to put out there if you're going to approach a competitor's dissatisfied customer. Anything else and you'll likely have a customer pissed off at two companies rather than just one. Thanks again for adding to the dialogue.
Thanks, Matt. Yeah, I think one of the benefits of integrative social media is being able to use media that fit the purpose. We can easily kickstart conversations on Twitter and then move to a deeper dialogue on blogs.
That whole “If you're having problems with your web hosting…” approach is little more than what we might get from a spammy blast email. We're not doing any sales listening, analysis or awareness and its likely not going to lead to a sales solution. You can only get there through a relationship. And by making the commitment to delve through the surface level issues to uncover true needs from the prospect.
All these things are available through social media, but they take time to cultivate…but then, the best sales are done that way. So very little changes. Agree?